Core Wounds Revealed.

You may find yourself revisiting old wounds, despite all of the times you have cracked the code and (seemingly) dealt with the root of your pain…a new layer may be surfacing for you at this time.

Intensified energy shines a torch into the dark, to highlight the remaining debris of what has been cleared.  You may find yourself immersed in the silt of repressed gunk that sits in your system. 

Look around you. Many people are in the midst of their own version of this. 

The binding of core wounds woven into us are in the midst of a steep and unforgiving unravelling.

For some: the experience is cataclysmic, in the inner and outer world. 

For others - a force of nature that brings with it a purification that is swift and crisp. (Perhaps a combination of both!)

Tensions are high on a deeply personal experiential level - it is hard to hold others when you’re going through so much. 

Be mindful not to get stuck in defensive response to other people’s drama.

You will take it personally.

You will have a relationship with it.

It will trigger you.

You will respond from your own trauma.

Take this opportunity to notice what resonates, and what emerges from your own core wound.

This is yours to work on, be mindful not to expect others to take ownership of what ails you - just as you are not responsible for another’s.

These pangs that rise up from the depths of your wounding pose as potentials…opportunities to learn.

The opportunity to intervene between old patterns and your future…offering you a CHOICE to do something different. To do better, be better.

Better than what the core wounds have had you believing you’d ever have the capacity to be.

Creating safety for your tender heart, rather than seeking it externally as you’ve been taught you had to.

More powerful than the stories that left you powerless.

You are not your wound. History does not have to repeat itself.

Bring yourself back to heart, before you respond. 

Things can be vastly different…if you take the time to come back to love. It may take more time, sure. Making new ways to relate: requires and deserves that space.

The energy moving through takes old stories of Victimhood…and attempts to run this outdated show out of town.

Chose to own your mistakes, grow from the mistakes of others, and rewire the response systems that you learned when you were young…in whatever ways resonate for you.

Chose to surrender to the flow of what you can’t control, take charge of the things you can - and make a stand to be courageously trusting of the unfolding.

Detach yourself from a particular fairy tale outcome.

But don’t give up on hope, dreams, wishes and magic. 

Don’t give up on yourself.

No one else can heal your wounds FOR you.

No one else is going to ride in on a white stallion to save you from your demons.

No one else can dig you out of the situation you’re currently in.

You are the answer. You have always and will always be the answer, and the prayer.

You will save your fucking self.

Those left to stand beside you on top of the mountain peak will surely have earned the flag they lay into the soil at your feet.

Those beside you will join forces with you, having met their own wounds, alone in the dark - but beside you.

Together you forge new beginnings and leave the old skins and armour in the pit below. You won’t need them anymore.

And if you find yourself alone at the peak, know too that this is your path - and the best is yet to come. See the horizon as a brand new day, the sun shines upon you as you embark on the next cycle.

You may not like what transpires, but it will most certainly be what you need.

With Love,
​Niki

​Before you get too swept away with gifting to others and setting New Year’s resolutions, stop a moment.

There is a whisper in the air…can you hear it? Can you feel it?

This gentle energy invokes us to feel deeply into our resilience and have gratitude for ourselves.

Are you grateful to YOURSELF, for being you?

There is no other, that can bring your unique expression to life.

This energy invites you to sit a while in stillness, appreciating how far you’ve come. Celebrate the little wins, the growth, the self awareness and realisations you’ve had. This is no small thing, darling heart.

Quite often we’re so busy trying to reach that higher state, attain happier, healthier, better, MORE. There’s a place for that, but don’t forget to appreciate yourself and those around you, and your environment. What you already have, right here…right now.
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Be in presence - while you give presents.

As you reflect on the year - notice your triumphs… This year has been ‘different’ to any other…on a global scale. We’ve been able to come out again and in some way or other…some things have changed. We’ve changed.

We’ve not just emerged out of our homes but in some ways…out of the old and the outdated. Perhaps there’s been a shifting out of the restrictive (yet comfortable) patterns…and lifting the facade of who we thought we were or who we thought others were.

As we break free from the cocoons that have kept us in survival, we get to spread our glorious wings, destined to take flight in a whole new world.

This metamorphosis is a beautiful thing, for to realise more truth is a gift. These new wings may take some time to get used to, and things may not always be shiny and sparkling, but a gift none the less.

If things didn’t go to plan or you’ve faced some dis-ease, pain or shadow this year, may you interpret the teachings of life as a blessing… in a way that is deeply meaningful to you. May you experience relief and decompression… and feel the vibrancy of possibility, potential and peace.

Congratulations on your resilience in being able to navigate this new normal.
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If you feel afraid to fly, may the winds of change be swift and gentle, and the glory of life help to stabilise the turbulence with loving Grace.

Very grateful to be invited along to the local Geelong Diwali Annakut celebration hosted by BAPS Swaminarayan Sanstha.

We love learning about different cultures and the beautiful ways they celebrate life and humanity.

There was a mountain of treats made with love and devotion by the community as an offering. After being offered up the food (prasad) is then shared with their community and beyond. It carries the blessings of the ceremony (and tastes amazing).

It is so fitting to experience this as we have been feeling the importance of gratitude and the many ways it can be expressed.

Aum Shanti ​

Self-Care Saturday

Yesterday we had the absolute pleasure of hosting our first Vital Space Nexus event IN PERSON!

We’ve been chipping away in the background for the last year or so online - and it was refreshing and joyous to be able to connect in real life! What fun, to hang out with such beautiful beings and do what we love in an intimate yet casual way.

The focus for the session was to Nurture and Nourish the overall system. We covered SO much in a short time that left the receivers feeling deeply relaxed and nurtured.

We worked on:
- Energy bodies, Chakras etc
- Energising the overall system
- Unblocking and optimising pathways
- Optimising cellular function
- Bringing in Nurturing energies and frequencies
And more!

​Sharing conversation about our various healing crafts, awakening, conditioning and getting to know the participants and their healing journey was just the icing on the (carrot) cake but also just the tip of the ice burg!

We are incredibly grateful and humbled by each person showing up - not just for our event but for themselves. For saying ‘yes’ to receiving.

We know that this can often be the hardest part, especially as exhausted mums who are always needed - it’s SO important we make time for ourselves too. Thank you for saying yes to yourselves. We know how challenging that decision can be.

Keep an eye out for more events like these on a fortnightly basis. Themes Will alternate and we’re open to suggestions!
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Big love
Niki & Ben